Going solo as a freelancer has its perks, but I’m finding the loneliness part pretty tough. Back when I was at an agency, the vibe wasn’t great and the pay wasn’t the best, but having people around made a big difference. Now, it’s just me and sometimes I miss that sense of being part of a team.
Does anyone have any stories or tips on how they’ve dealt with feeling isolated as a freelancer? I’d love to hear how you all manage to feel connected and stay motivated.
Hi Bernadett, I can totally relate to that feeling.
What helps me most is seeking out regular connection/catch ups with people: reaching out to former colleagues or inviting people for coffee chats.
I also recently joined a professional community that is local to where I live, called Ladies That UX. (they have them in many parts of the world, so you can look for your local chapter). It gives you a nice supportive professional network and a chance to meet new people more easily. I also sometimes attend local professional meetups as well.
I found that having a community that can be independent of the workplace is incredibly beneficial, as it is a network that stays with you even when you change projects/jobs.
Hope this helps Please feel free to reach out to me on Linkedin if you want. Always happy to have a chat!
I was struggling with the same issue, but a few years back (freelacing for 10+ years now) a client happened to ask me to join their office and I agreed.
We made a deal that I’ll also work on other projects while I’m in his office and still keep my freelancer freedom.
While at times they were pushing the freelancer/consultant - client boundaries we did manage to have a good interaction, I had an office at their place (for the time of the contract) and had the option to network with the people there.
Since 2021, when I turned into a “digital nomad”, I find coworkings to be really helpful and many of them have small communities gathered around certain industries or values, I’d recommend smaller and less corporate-y spaces where it’s easier to network with people.
Even though I work mostly from home, I love taking the opportunity to catch up with colleagues and friends over breakfast or lunch meetings. When I travel, I make it a point to connect with people I know in the area and try to arrange a meet-up. I’m always open to making new connections, so if this message finds its way to you, feel free to reach out! We can chat about the freelance lifestyle, dive into finance and business modeling—my true passion—or just exchange ideas over a good cup of coffee.
I can totally relate to what you’re feeling. The sense of isolation can sometimes be challenging. I’ve found that making a conscious effort to stay connected with others has really helped me. I try to schedule regular catch-ups with friends and former colleagues, even if it’s just for a quick virtual coffee chat.
Another thing that has worked for me is joining online communities and local meetups. There’s something about being around people who understand your work life that makes a big difference.
Also, I remind myself that it’s okay to feel lonely sometimes. Not working for an agency or in an office offers a lot of freedom, but it’s not always easy, and that’s okay. On tough days, I try to be kind to myself and remember why I chose this life. Having a support system, whether it’s friends, family, or other colleagues, is so important.
Please feel free to reach out to me on Linkedin if you want. Always happy to have a chat!